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Are You Gay?
By NLGJA National President Eric Hegedus

Toward the end of February, NLGJA had a meaningful opportunity to reach beyond our newsrooms and inform the public about a particular topic of concern to many.

Olympic figure skater Johnny Weir was making news in Turin, but not so much for his athletic ability as for his “flamboyant” existence. Coverage of Weir treated us to a flurry of innuendo — terminology such as flashy, whispers, eccentric, effeminate, flaming and even the term girly men — in speculative stories about his sexual orientation.

It all took me back to a column I wrote for the Fall 2005 issue of NLGJA Outlook, in which I wondered why we in the news media never ask public figures about their sexual orientation (specifically, “Are you gay?”). That piece subsequently moved me to pen an updated column, tailored toward the Weir coverage, for a “mainstream” publication, the San Francisco Chronicle. The op-ed piece — published Sunday, Feb. 26 — provided that perhaps it was time we did so when it was relevant to a story.

The feedback from readers was strong. While much of it was supportive (“Your article was great and right on.”), the responses, of course, weren’t universally accepting of the premise. Some readers felt the media should “leave him alone,” that we should “shut up about it” and that “IT IS NOBODY’S BUSINESS BUT HIS OWN. GET OUT OF OTHER PEOPLE’S LIVES!!!!!!”

The op-ed even led to an appearance on MSNBC’s “The Situation With Tucker Carlson,” in which I was given the chance to counter Mr. Carlson’s “I could not disagree with you more” stance on the subject.

Naturally, all of this also raised questions within our membership on the NLGJA’s “official” position on “outing” and the many variances of it.

If anything, we want journalists to examine when and whether it is appropriate to do so. That’s something that isn’t done as often as it could be. The Weir coverage was a perfect example of that.

Many journalists were covering him by discussing speculation and innuendo — when a case could be made to simply ask him the question, rather than putting together a story based on stereotypes that doesn’t answer any questions.

Clearly, the news media decided on the relevancy of the subject matter. But they didn’t then consider the next step of the process: deciding whether to engage in asking the question. If journalists feel it’s important enough to write about, then isn’t it important enough to stand behind it, as a journalist, and ask the question, rather than avoiding it? If a journalist starts the conversation — and in some cases engages in idle gossip and innuendo — then they should be willing to deal with asking the very question they’re discussing.

We must also keep in mind that the “nobody’s business” argument is never made when a newspaper does a feature on an individual and mentions such ubiquitous personal information as whether the person is single or dating, married or divorced, or has children. This is despite the fact that it is recognition of a perceived sexual orientation (heterosexual). Yet journalists play into the shame game and invisibility by avoiding questions about orientation if the interviewee is possibly attracted to same-sex individuals.

On a basic level, the Chronicle column was meant to get journalists — and the public — talking to each other about instances when it’s potentially appropriate, and those when it’s potentially not. And I think we all know that there will be many gray areas in those discussions.

In the end, if a journalist deems that it’s relevant to ask whether someone is LGBT — and, again, I think the recent Weir coverage is a scenario in which the question was key — then they should ask. One can’t necessarily predict what the response will be, but that’s beside the point. (After all, several years ago, Barbara Walters gave much-speculated-about singer Ricky Martin a chance to say "I am/I’m not." He chose to basically say “No comment.”)

Asking relevant questions is part of good reporting. And in this case, good reporting trumps speculation that yields few, if any, answers.

We’re not saying you should necessarily ask everyone about their sexual orientation. The point is that rather than just asking the question, some journalists have been engaging in innuendo and promulgating stereotypes when describing someone they assume or suspect is gay. These journalists have already made a determination (right or wrong) that the issue is relevant — but they haven’t gone the extra step to find out the facts.


This piece originally appeared in NLGJA Outlook, the official newsmagazine of NLGJA. E-mail NLGJA National President Eric Hegedus with your questions about NLGJA's mission and work within the news industry.